Everything works itself out

We all have shitty times in our lives. We think the world is about to cave in on us and there is no relief in sight. We all cry, vent, get angry, feel sorry for ourselves. And it really does nothing to help us. Being angry and frustrated gets us nowhere. But it's a very normal reaction. And people that are going through these issues need to get themselves out of it on their own or with amazing, real support. There isn't much to do to help a person going through a shitty ass time. Sure you can take the person out for drinks or dinner, but they will still go home feeling like shit. The person going through issues needs to give themselves the time to heal. The time to reflect on their lives and what they can do to improve it. If they have a death in the family, they need that time to grieve and enjoy the memories they had with that individual. If the person is going through a break up, you need to let that person cry and vent and give them a shoulder to lean on. It might take weeks, even months for a person to get over, or to learn how to deal with a major change in their lives. But at the end, everything will work itself out. It just has too. The funk will end. The sorrow will end. The trauma will end. And then we move on. And we look back and realize that the person that passed away is in a better place. That the break up was probably for the best cause you are a much happier person. That losing your job was a blessing cause you found something new, better and fun. We all have to go through some crazy obstacles to reach that finish line. But I promise you, at the end everything will work itself out.